-I’m falling for my best friend, what do I do?
We’ve gotten these questions a lot and I can say the best answer for you is to be straight up and tell him/her. It’s the best way to get things out in the open; a friend of mine told the guy he liked and they’re still friends to this day. Don’t give your friend some type of ultimatum but just be open and honest because that’s what a good friendship is :]
-How do I tell if a girl is interested in me?
Well, does she/he smile at you a lot? Is she/he flirty and makes a lot of eye contact? Maybe she’s/he’s shy just like you! Maybe you should get to know him/her and see what makes them tick before you make any assumptions, getting to know someone is what makes a good foundation for ANY type of relationship!
-I am gay and depressed/ suicidal what do I do?
I can’t say this enough, please, PLEASE find a counselor to help you out! I will talk to you to the best of my ability, but people love you, you’re important and please find help. Depression/Suicide Hotline:
- I really like girls but I don’t think I could ever have sex with one! Help!
This question always makes me laugh! I don’t think the main reason I found girls attractive was because I like having sex with them! I mean that’s another great factor, but I think what forms a good relationship is the emotional attraction, and once you feel more and more for that person, your feelings will materialize and all you want to do is things for THEM make them feel loved and show them exactly how you feel. Oh gosh, I hope that made sense.
-I like this girl/guy but they’re still dating someone!
RED FLAG. Do not pursue them under any circumstance. Cheating is a horrible way to end and begin a relationship. The best thing to do is find someone else worth your time and effort.
-What if I come out to my friends and they get awkward around me in locker rooms/ changing, etc.?
This is my own personal pet peeve!! You’re no different then you were five minutes before you tell them! What makes you so different? Honestly, just be straight up and say, “I like girls, but that doesn’t mean I like all girls!” Simple as that :] Be completely up front with people because the only discomfort is from not understanding!
-How do I know if I’m gay?
The best thing to answer this question is….try it out! Talk to some girls/guys and see what works for you! You don’t necessarily have to shout it from the rooftops (unless you want to!) You can be more anonymous and meet girls on tumblr, downelink or AfterEllen and see what works for YOU. You don’t necessarily need a relationship, but learning more about yourself is always a plus!
Thanks for reading! More updates to come!
Anonymous asked: how do i know that my girlfriend is the one and i'm not confusing love with lust? feelings are much stronger since we both are girls.
Well think about it this way: Can you picture yourself sitting comfortably next to her in her most unflattering clothing, no makeup, un brushed hair while she seems to be singing a rendition of lord knows WHAT song right in your ear during your favorite show? and STILL look at her and think she’s the most perfect thing in the world?
There you go.
To those who continue to ask, “Who wears the pants in your relationship/Who’s the man between you two?” Here is the answer:
For starters, the ‘man’ in the relationship is not there at all. Want to know why? Because this is a relationship between Stacy and Cydney. Two women. There is no man in that relationship. Just like there is no woman in a relationship between a man and a man. There are two people. No third stereotype to fit the constructed “Man or Woman” idea that people are trying to fit us into.
And the who wears the pants? I know we have joked previously but we aren’t dumb and we understand the question and its entirety HOWEVER…It really is none of your business. We share parts of our life that we have mutually decided upon showing you guys. We have agreed that things THIS personal are not to be posted online for the world to know because we aren’t bettering anyone by giving that information away. We are here and public to HELP you guys, not give you something to gossip and fantasize about. Yes, there are relationships that have a more dominant person..and they’re ok with sharing that to the world. However, Stacy and I aren’t comfortable doing so. We have drawn the line.
AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST—-Our Past.
We get these questions SO frequently and here’s me clarifying: We aren’t answering them. It’s not that we do not have a past, but once again, it is another topic we are not going to cover with the world. That is our business and we are going to keep it that way. We do not talk about people we’ve dated because it is not in everyone’s, including our own, best interest.
I just wanted to clear all of that up for you guys so that I won’ t have to discuss it over and over again. We really do truly appreciate your messages and questions and will be more than happy to answer as many as we can within reason. Thank you so much for watching, following and subscribing. You all are absolutely wonderful <3
Anonymous asked: where can we send you gifts ? :>
Right here :3 P.O. Box 4830 Rancho Cucamonga, CA. 91729
Facebook?: Search “Cydney and Stacy”
What’s your birthday?: May 23
How Tall Are You?: 5’5
How Old Are You?: 18
What Are you studying In college?: Psychology
Do you have any tattoos?: Yes, a Buddha on my foot.
Do you drink/do drugs?: No, sir
Anonymous asked: You look just like Stacy's girlfriend, from the Stacy and Cydney videos on youtube..have you seen them? :)
Um, I’m Cydney..